In this conversation, Carolina and Lilly Rachels discuss conflict resolution in relationships. They explore the importance of modeling healthy conflict resolution for children and the impact of childhood experiences on adult conflict resolution skills. Lilly shares her framework for effective conflict resolution, emphasizing the need for clarity, sharing facts, expressing feelings, and making requests. They also discuss the importance of active listening and the energetics of communication. Overall, the conversation highlights the significance of approaching conflict resolution with love and intention.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
Modeling healthy conflict resolution is important for children to learn effective communication skills.
Effective conflict resolution requires clarity, sharing facts, expressing feelings, and making requests.
Active listening is crucial in conflict resolution to understand and validate the other person’s perspective.
Approaching conflict resolution with love and intention can lead to more positive outcomes.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Personal Connection
02:33 Setting the Stage for Conflict Resolution
04:12 The Importance of Conflict Resolution in Relationships
05:20 Modeling Conflict Resolution for Children
08:18 Introduction to Lilly Rachels’ Work
09:41 Lilly Rachels’ Framework for Conflict Resolution
11:14 Using Phrases and Templates for Effective Communication
12:25 The Feedback Loop Framework
18:16 The Importance of Active Listening
20:35 The Pebble or Boulder Approach
23:32 Common Mistakes in Conflict Resolution
28:11 The Energetics of Communication
29:15 Conclusion and Contact Information
How to Be Amazing at Conflict Resolution with Lilly Rachels
I'm your dedicated Reiki Womb Healer and the creator of Make A Baby™ programs. I've supported over 100 women in conceiving through fertility treatments & natural conception—by healing emotional wounds, clearing energetic blocks, and activating the womb with Reiki.
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