Today is Father’s Day! This day is so complex and full of different emotions for many.
This day for me is bright and happy to celebrate the father my husband is to our son. It is shadowed by my grief and heart longing for my dad, who died in 2014. I wish I could have a BBQ with my husband, dad, and son. I would give so much to have that experience. Instead I say these words and encourage any woman aka daddy’s little girl who is missing her dad in heaven: “Hi Daddy! I am sorry you are not here. Please know my heart is with you today and every day. Thank you for the memories, lessons, and love. I love you more than words can describe. You are my first love. Love your little girl.”
For the moms who are both mother and father, I admire you. I appreciate your strength. I see how hard this is for you! This affirmation is for you: “I am connected to the ancient wisdom from my highest self. My angels and spirit guides walk and guide me and my children. I see my future for myself and children full of protection, divinity and abundance. I speak my truth with love. It is easy for me to give and receive love without conditions. My children are worthy of the best things in this world. I am worthy of love. I accomplish all my goals with ease. I create prosperity and am open to opportunities for happiness. I am grounded, strong, and powerful as a spiritual being, human, and mother. I am EVERYTHING I need.”
For the women who have their daddies here, I encourage you to reach out to them or spend the day with them if you wish. Enjoy your day with them. Time is going by faster. Have the conversations you always wanted to TODAY. The years go by fast and having the conversations at the end can be a lot. Just a nugget of a wisdom from me.
For the women who are struggling with their relationship with their dads, that is ok. As women, we innately get our emotional security from our father’s masculine energy. If we do not feel safe to express our emotions with our dads, then that affects our womb and sacral plexus chakra. I want you to say this affirmation to your inner child: “Hi little one! You are so loved. I know you feel sad and confused. You don’t have to worry anymore. You are cared for now by me.I love all parts of me, including you, my inner child. You are safe and can be who you are without fear. I will be here to stand up and protect you. Go forth and be bright, radiant, and brave. You are LOVED unconditionally!”
I pray you know on this Father’s Day that my heart charka is open to you. Sending Reiki to each of you.
Love and Light,